Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Maybe A Last Laugh; crime and punishment series

As the previous post amply describes, I feel a bit of disrespect and chagrin from the way the Orange Picker boys first lied to me, then denounced me publicly for no good reason. I am what I am and I was born when my mother saw fit to let me out of the oven. No crime in that.

If the previous post was too long to endure, here is the synopsis:
The young brothers asked me to play so I played few times with them in public
it went well enough
They asked me to play Monday night.
I said OK. Then they sent a message at 630 saying they wouldn't be able to make it
I went to the venue to catch other acts and see what sort of people attend
They showed up and didn't notice me.

When they were on stage, the guitar player went on about how the harp player they had last time was really,
REALLY old, in a context which seemed meant to explain why I was not there. And in a ridiculing, derogatory manner.
The event MC did tell him the harp player was good. That was nice.

I've been a little miffed, and sometimes angry, ever since.

Today, I get a message from them asking if I can play on Friday night at the Egyptian Tea room and hookah parlor. Oh, so maybe someone told you that you sucked last time out? And maybe said you were better when the harp player was there? I don't know. One can daydream.

After seeing the guitar guy do his very bad Rico Suave imitation while playing, I was grateful I did not play with them Monday night. Not something I care to be part of.

Beyond that, if you lie to me, then publicly try to defame me for condition of birth, I doubt we have much to discuss. Ignorant people, who are clueless regarding themselves and others, young or old, are to be avoided and afforded no extra respect. My feeling is that attempting to explain the error of his ways would sound like a defense, could result in me punching him, and generally be no fun and not productive.

But I couldn't pass on a little opportunity to reply. Joel thinks they may be too dense to even get the little joke, and the lesson in it, and I think he may be right. I get it and that is what matters.

After several hours I replied in text to their text:
Sorry. I'm playing a benefit at the OLD folks home.
Raising money for viagra, memory loss research, as well as ego disorders


This gave me a little satisfaction. How they take it, like it, or anything else doesn't matter any more. I ,at least, got to say NO, and in a way I wanted to say it.

I'd love to hear what you think, but I won't hold my breath.

I'd already agreed to practice with the friends up here on Ballistic Mountain anyway. They feed me and appreciate my old and feeble way of making a harmonica squeak.

I've tolerated betrayal in one form or another many times in my life, and when I got fed up I always wondered why I put up with it for even a minute. This time I actually cut it off immediately. If any further contact is attempted, I will not reply. Just had to throw this one out there so the clever and even the mildly dim witted would know what is what.

And perhaps they aren't sure if I was there, or if someone in the audience knew me and told me. I like the thought that they may not know.

11 comments:

  1. Jerks. You are right to cut them out. Who needs jerks in his life?

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  2. No integrity with those guys. None whatsoever....

    I know who I will play with and who I won't and know it almost instantly. They are just greedy, stupid or do not communicate well. Perhaps a smattering of all three..

    I have played with a harp player once or twice in my life. I liked it but then again I am usually the lone gunman in my band and even I like to hog all the lead licks...Harp does sound nice however.

    Cheers,
    Bobby

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  3. Makes you wonder how they feel about those relics (who actually ARE old) who still play, and could wipe the floor with the guitar player.

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  4. You're a better man than I am. I am afraid I'd promise to be there on a big job and then not show.

    I'd like to think I wouldn't do such a thing, but....

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  5. It's nice to say no on your own terms, ain't it? Nice job, Harpo.

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  6. I don't care about lead licks. Either I add to the overall sound or I haven't done my job, or I don't belong. Once I figure out what the lead guitar or vocal is trying to do, then I can work my part in. Sometimes I see no way to add to or enhance what is being played so I do nothing or back away. That was not the deal here. The kids were pretty much thrilled I would play with them. No telling what happened. It is the lie and disrespect that got to me.

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  7. That was perfection at just say NO! and by the way....I just enjoy listening to you play your Harp...on my blog...and in YouTube!

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    1. very kind of you all. It's just kids and they seem torn from moment to moment. I had fun. Won't do it again. I wonder if I did things that made experienced people pity me and cringe when I was that age.

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  8. I think they were just trying to make excuses for their own poor performance and needed someone to blame. I definitely wouldn't play for them anymore...

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Can't make comments any easier, I don't think. People are having trouble--google tries to kidnap them. I'll loosen up one more thing and let's see. Please give it a try

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