Overall, you can't know for sure about things; one second sooner or later doing something could set off an unpredictable chain of events and some important person might be saved or destroyed. You just don't know.
The best description of this is in Mark Twain's short story, the Mysterious Stranger. It is my favorite of anything I've ever read by him. That is probably because it gives plausibility to the idea that had I done everything right, I may have found myself in some odd circumstance of timing which led to awful consequences to others through no cognitive fault of mine--just wrong place at wrong time.
No use contemplating hypotheticals, especially if they bring sadness and regret. And it also could serve to temper the back patting one might indulge for supposed good deeds.
I was already in another state, and times were tough. K and her mom P had hit the road back to Miami. I was exhausted from three years of enjoying raising the child, and trying to shield her and myself from her mother's irresponsible and odd (redneck) behavior. My bad. I was foolish. But I tried. There came a time when I had to draw the line at certain behavior. No other choice, I guess.
I am sorry I went that road, but it was probably the sanest, most stable three years of K's life. Maybe that is good. I've never been the same since, though I have tried to shake it. I left Miami too soon, but couldn't sit by and watch what public Dade county kindergarten was doing to poor little K. Not to mention the home scene with P and her parents. Yikes. This is the trap for people who compulsively jump on the white horse thinking they are rescuers. Often it is best to mind your own affairs.
Oh well. Mr X survived, and understands my type of mentality. It was nice to call and hear what I need to hear. I want to smoke like crazy. But how will that change anything for the better? I almost did, but a little voice inside urged me to leave the store as I waited in line, and for once I listened, walking out without wasting money on nonsense and self destruction.
Here's the truth. I'm weak, brilliant, lonely and find my pride is easily rattled if anyone notices anything except my brilliance. I need to find more work of some kind. I've ruled out stripper even though I can do some spiffy dance moves. The market for me stripping is not a lucrative one. Don't want to sell drugs, be a hit man, or work in a bar.
I do like water and air purification but don't know much about water. It is a wide open field because I think the technology probably exists to do cheaper, better desalination but it is just not realized, even though people are messing with it here and there. The FL Keys and Southern California should be getting their water off their coasts rather than bringing it in from other regions. One day it will be cheaper to remove the salt.
I was astounded to discover how much of SoCal gets its water. Crazy. Colorado river?
Anyway. My friend was able to catch up with another friend back then, on my birthday, and things worked out. He's in AZ now. And now he's able to help me get my mind in the right place when it needs fixing.
If I had not left Miami when I did, no telling where I'd be now. If I leave here, where would I go? A cheaper place maybe. Or maybe to nowhere.
I was going to tell the can o pee flying story. I sure hope it didn't land on anyone. Wouldn't that be troubling after all these years if they nabbed me for that?
So, we have some work tomorrow. Nice that the house manager expressed concern that someone might "scoop me up and take me away" paying me a tidy sum. She has a higher opinion of my worth than I do sometimes. God, get rid of this damned recurring impulse to smoke! It just rushed over me again.
Why do some people have that misguided urge to self destruct? Maybe lack of challenging and positive activity. And that feeling like I'm never home. I left Memphis in search of home, and this is closer to it, but not yet.
Home will be found when true integrity is achieved; mind body and spirit all in sync. I had it once or twice, for a short time. One day I'll have it again, I hope. It seems like it is all about women, but it isn't. That doesn't prevent me from being pretty sure when and where that situation will resolve, if it ever does. It was so nice before leaving Miami that time when I was frequently presented with tempting requests but I was taken and always said, "no thanks. Besides, I'd only break your heart."
Karma will kick you right where it hurts the most. Well, this was a long post, the purpose of which was to fire me up a little so I can say I am not giving up. Plus some people around here tend to rely on me as an elder in the world of people trying not to wake up dead under a dumpster. Silly them. I tell them ignorance is their friend in many ways. Only a few understand how that applies.
Anger gives a little rush but not the right kind. It makes it worse, unless it is the type that responds to perceived rejection or lack of respect by propelling me into some kind of action. But that is rare. No, I'm better served with blind internal zealotry and faith that I can be of some good use.
Speaking of a long way from home, this proves I woke up on another planet:
Your tax dollars and something surreal at work. WTF? Thank you, I no longer feel like the craziest guy in the room--whoever is behind this has me beat, hands down!
This just cannot be real. No no no. I have a higher opinion of humanity than to think they go along with this.